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All the Boys and Girls Now
Steve Gross ‘90 brings joy to the world’s most troubled children
— Rebecca Pollard Pierek

steve grossThough nearly two years have passed since Hurricane Katrina ravaged the Gulf Coast, young children—those who watched as their homes and communities were destroyed—still suffer from the effects of that trauma.

“Whenever a rain cloud passes overhead, young children here become incredibly frightened,” says Pamela Mottley, an early childhood specialist at Mississippi State University (MSU). “Some kids act out with aggression; others can’t sleep at night because they are so afraid.”

To help Katrina’s youngest victims, Mottley and her team of researchers and educators at MSU turned to Project Joy. The Boston-based nonprofi t has trained hundreds of preschool teachers and daycare providers throughout the Northeast to help young children recover from trauma through play.

“Play is a critical part of a child’s healthy development. It’s how kids explore their world. It’s how they rehearse for life’s challenges in a safe way,” says Steven Gross ‘90, Project Joy’s founder and director.

“When children are traumatized, their fears keep them from playing. When children stop playing, they stop growing. But with guidance from trusted adults, they can learn how to play again.”

In the past year, Project Joy has trained more than 80 teachers in 45 preschools in Mississippi to use its therapeutic, play-based curriculum. The aim is to reach every preschool along the Gulf Coast. Mottley, who oversees the program’s implementation there, says that children respond instantly to Project Joy. “I taught a class last week, and the children squealed with joy as they played,” she says.

It’s exuberant physical play that offers great healing, says Gross. Adults process and heal from traumas largely by talking about them. But talk therapy doesn’t help kids. “Young children do not have the verbal skills to process a traumatic experience by talking about it,” he says. “Play is the language of children.”

Gross designed Project Joy’s curriculum with this in mind. Most sessions begin with a teacher reading a storybook in which characters triumph over fear and adversity or exhibit great altruism or resilience. Then the teacher guides the children in acting out narratives from a story. After reading the classic children’s book The Little Engine That Could, for instance, the children pretend to be little engines, carrying one another around the play space in toy parachutes.

Running, leaping, and laughing their way through the warm-ups and activities, children re-experience some of the same physiological states that occur during a traumatic event— a racing heart rate, pumping adrenaline, rapid breathing—but in an environment where they are safe and in control. Dr. Robert Macy, a psychologist at the Trauma Center in Brookline, says this is the key to Project Joy’s effectiveness. Since Freud, psychologists have used play to help children overcome psychological difficulties, he says, but most traditional play therapies involve play with objects or fine-motor play. “That kind of play therapy has limited results with trauma,” says Macy. “You’ve got to mobilize the entire integrated body and get the children moving.”

In the aftermath of the 1999 earthquake in Turkey that killed more than 17,000 people and left another half-million homeless, Macy asked Gross to help him develop a classroom-based trauma intervention for Turkish children. Since then, the intervention has reached more than 250,000 child victims of trauma in nations such as Sudan, Eritrea, and Palestine. Macy, who is conducting a large controlled study of the intervention, says preliminary data shows that active play is one very effective ingredient for helping children recover from traumatic events.

The need for trauma intervention doesn’t just arise during times of war or natural disaster. Dwayne Nunez, who teaches Project Joy at a Head Start preschool program in Boston’s urban core, says his students must cope with trauma daily. “Living where we live is a traumatic experience in and of itself,” says Nunez. Some of his students are homeless. Others go without food. All live with an ongoing threat of violence in the streets.

Nunez says Project Joy provides the only opportunity for many of his students to play in a safe environment. One little girl in his class, who had lived in three foster homes before she came to the preschool, “was extremely withdrawn, had problems with aggression, and was hitting other children,” he says. After several weeks in his Project Joy sessions, he watched the girl gain confidence and begin to play with other children. Soon the difficult behavior disappeared. “She started doing so well with her teachers and with the other kids. I don’t think she’d been able to make friends before that,” Nunez says.

Gross has a trove of similar anecdotes from his 20 years as a play therapist. He first experienced the power of play while in college as a summer intern at the Academy of Physical and Social Development, an organization in Newton, Massachusetts. Shortly after graduating from UMass Amherst with a business degree, he landed a grant to start running therapeutic playgroups for homeless children. “I wanted to reach the most vulnerable children, the ones who didn’t have any other options,” says Gross, who later earned a master’s in social work from Boston College.

Gross launched Project Joy in 1989, and for 16 years he conducted playgroups himself. Two years ago, in an effort to reach more children, Gross began to credential preschool and after-school teachers and daycare providers to teach Project Joy. Now he and his small staff take teachers on deluxe all-expenses paid retreats to introduce them to Project Joy philosophy and, he says, to get them playing.

“Every teacher I talk to tells me the Project Joy retreat is the most fun they have ever had in any training,” says Pamela Mottley. And this, she adds, has helped change attitudes about play among teachers. “We’re fighting deeply embedded ideas, here, that our role as educators is to control children and keep them focused on academic tasks,” she says. But with the training and support, more teachers are embracing the power of play to engage—and transform—their students. “When you think of all the lives these teachers touch over their careers, the potential for change is enormous,” says Mottley.

 

 

 

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